if i had to name one thing that i hate it'd be those people that think that everything is always someone elses fault. get a grip, you're in control of your own life. the things that you do/the grades that you get they're all a direct result of a choice that you've made. putting the blame on other people might make you feel better temporarily but in the end you're the only one that controls your life. if you depend only on yourself, then when you get let down you only have yourself to blame.